This is completely based off observation.
Since it can be hard to figure out what you need to do to claim certain lionesses, I decided to make a small guide, based off what I observed! Please leave your observations here, as it can really help!
Note: These won't work all the time, and sometimes it brings affection up by a bit more or less

Good

Kind
Purr brings her affection up by ???

Neutral
Shake Mane brings her affection up by 2
Purr brings her affection up by 2
Rub Head brings her affection up by

Snarky

Evil