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⚖️Mej🥀[4kstat
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Posted on
2019-11-02 19:15:07
hey there :)
having a bad day? week? month? year?
i know the feeling....
being sad or depressed is something that you are going to need help with, believe me i should know. you can't get through it alone so please let me do whatever i can to help because i don't want anyone to feel the way i felt and sometimes feel. you are not alone even though im a stranger somewhere far far away i want to do my best to help.
so are you having a bad day? week? month? year? please let me know
talking helps you get through <3

don't feel comfortable posting your troubles here? feel free to message me privately
also if you feel brave you can totally post your life story or troubles here

just know that if you feel sad now you will just be happier in the future.

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(My story
my father was an computer addict so he neglected me and my mother, one day my mom had enough and divorced him after 1 or 2 years he decided to move to america with a younger woman from Hawaii. i remember when he came to say goodbye and the next morning he was gone i felt so sad... around that time i started to get bullied in kindergarten. soon i started middle school aka my 10 years of hell (in my countrie you are in middle school for a long time) it started with no one wanting to be around me because i have ADHD so i was always alone or being made fun off. lets skip to 8 to 10 grade this is the time my depression got really bad, i started cutting, scratching and beating myself up i also started to lose a lot of weight and was extremely angry and sad. eventually i found the courage to tell my mom that felt so bad that i wanted to die, she got me help from professionals witch i am so happy about because if she had not i might not be here writing this and for that i am grateful. even though i am on meds and regularly go and talk to a therapist i still sometimes feel incredibly sad and depressed, and because of that i want to do my best to help you so you don't feel like i do. so please let me help you )


Edited on 02/11/19 @ 19:38:20 by ⚖️Mej (clean rosette)🌿 (#129221)

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2019-11-02 19:17:39
Hey. My birthday was yesterday and a lot of awful shit happened, my whole birthday was kind of a mess. My bf cheated on me with my sister, my best friend ditched me, and my parents called me a disappointment.


⚖️Mej🥀[4kstat
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Posted on
2019-11-02 19:20:52
that's horrible! how are you holding up?


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2019-11-02 19:22:19
Well I've been crying quite a lot. I've tried everything, watching funny videos, going for walks, sleeping, watching movies. I can forget about it for a minute or 2 and then I just remember that everything sucks.


⚖️Mej🥀[4kstat
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2019-11-02 19:25:15
i know how you feel i have been going through really bad depression thees last years.
try letting ice cold water run over the pulse on your hands the next time you feel like crying it helps you calm down. also remember that what happened is non of your fault.


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2019-11-02 19:26:35
Thank you for helping out. You have no idea how much it means to me <3


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Posted on
2019-11-02 19:27:23
anytime im here for you<3


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Posted on
2019-11-02 19:49:06
I am like you, Mej, I just want to help people. I am also on meds for my depression, anxiety, and anger issues. I am always willing to listen, so don't feel as if you have no-one here to talk to. I have big shoulders and open ears. Nothing you say will ever offend me. I am on disability, and sometimes I get very frustrated about not being able to to the things I used to, but I remind myself every day that I have people who love me, and that I am still able to care for my horses, even if their bags of feed are too heavy for me now, and I need a mounting block to get on. We carry on the best we can, I feel very blessed to have found that there are others like me, people just wanting to help others, in any way we can.




Edited on 02/11/19 @ 19:50:29 by blackpaso (#32205)

⚖️Mej🥀[4kstat
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2019-11-02 19:52:21
thank you it means a lot to me <3
because for a long time i felt that i was all alone and had no one so reading something like this makes me tear up



Edited on 02/11/19 @ 19:54:43 by ⚖️Mej (clean rosette)🌿 (#129221)

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2019-11-03 12:30:03
Well I just feel really down today and I don't know why. I don't really have the mental energy to do much except mindlessly watch YouTube videos even though I've got urgent classwork to do for my college courses. I don't know why I feel like this. It doesn't help that there's this crush I have that keeps popping back up at random inconvenient times even though I know it'd never work between the person I have a crush on and I and it makes me feel even worse when my brain reminds me of it


⚖️Mej🥀[4kstat
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2019-11-03 13:01:41
its normal to feel down from time to time ,do something that makes you happy even if you don't think it will make you happy do it, it will help trust me. what i do to try to stay motivated is to workout or take a walk, try setting an alarm for your school work. you don't know if it will work or not! just because you think it might not work doesn't mean it won't. take a chance and if it doesn't work that person just wasn't for you and you will eventually find someone.

live now not in the future.


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2019-11-03 13:12:35
It's just I'm not sure what would motivate me. Like I don't even feel as though I can find the motivation to get a sip of my pop which is on the table right next to me.

Thing about the crush is, the person I have the crush on lives in a different country and can sometimes be kinda private and I don't think they'd tell me if they were in a relationship with someone and well, they still seem kinda hung up on their previous relationship. Asides from that, we're friends and I really don't want to ruin that but at the same time this crush keeps telling me otherwise


⚖️Mej🥀[4kstat
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Posted on
2019-11-03 13:16:03
start with little things like get up, take a shower, eat food ect. :)

if this is your true friend they will continue to stay friends with you if they arn't into you. when i broke up with my girlfriend we became just friend and we still are today. thats the only advice i know


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Posted on
2019-11-03 13:20:21
I wanna hug everyone*hug*


⚖️Mej🥀[4kstat
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Posted on
2019-11-03 13:21:12
aww thanks *hug*


Roni🌈 (#15823)

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Posted on
2019-11-03 13:22:28
No problem.. can I vent if I am not sad or something?