My opinion about this was almost perfectly reflected in my reply to another suggestion, minus the solution, which I have snipped:

I know that some people feel self-conscious and anxious about the number of likes that they receive on posts, and I've seen similar sentiments on pet sims that do have a like system in place. Therefore, if it were to be implemented, I think that it should be optional. Unfortunately, the 'account options' section is very cluttered, and if I am not mistaken, the developers are reluctant to add more toggles.*SNIP*

In this case, I'm not sure how to make this optional without adding to the Account Options section or making it look odd. However, if a good location could be found, then I'd be okay with it.

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The toggle could be "Hide Likes?" Right under the like button (for the den owner only)

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Um, actually, that could work. I would prefer that likes were outright disabled but previous likes were saved, so that people cannot give any further likes until it is turned back on. I've seen hidden likes bothering people as well. I guess it's the idea.

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