How would we be able to enforce the rule?

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Moderators would prob check to see if people are doing it and if not I'm sure make warnings and if they keep doing it have them unsubscribe. It's honestly annoying being told 'sending' and then getting smth you explicitly said you didn't want LOL even tho you don't have to gift what people ask for, it's nice to see who's actually sending legitimate items and who's just purging their hoard and asking for "hybrids only NO SURPRISES"
Most ppl do it anyway, it's like a select handful who continuously don't do it

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Yea i didnt think about that, and what if people cant put "no surprises" unless they have at least like 3-5 easy items such as 50-100 sb, feathers, etc

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In that case rule #6 does say that people don't have to gift on the list.. if someone's list is crazy like that, basically impossible, they won't be sent it haha

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Agreed with everyone. I do see people saying “no surprises” on their wishlist, though I can’t control what they write. It’s up to them to make the list fair.

Also I just see too many people not listing what they gifted to the point I thought to myself, is it really necessary? So instead of making the decision with my mod, I decided to let you guys decide.

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It's really weird too. When I started replying to these forums everyone listed what they gifted (esp in other forums) where it's necessary you gift what you say. But when you don't do this, people get away with sending like small meat chunks ya know whereas in other threads if they say 'sending a mutie' for example but send a explore decor, then everyone knows it and the forum creator can get involved. In your forums case it's necessarily against the rules to gift whatever you want, but it's nice to see who's actually gifting decent things and who isn't

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That actually makes a lot of sense though. Without listing what they gifted, they can send things that isn’t what they were meant to sent.
Basically meaning they can end up sabotaging the gifting thread which isn’t good.

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Exactly. Like I don't mind if someone gifts off list as long as they're honest about it. I've had many people say things like 'send flower decor' and then I get the message of 'sorry didn't actually have, here's 3 shiny rocks' ..... like ok look before you gift or at least gift smth else on my list xD

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Oof- that’s unfortunate. I guess sometimes some people don’t keep their word, that’s why.

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Okay, so I notice that sometimes members of the thread will say they have gifted something but really didnt.
I think maybe they should be required to show screenshots of the transaction that was sent before asking for anything. Or maybe thats too strict? Idk just a thought

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That requires more work and yeah, it is too hectic to implement

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I think in that base @Pale Verditer if @Starfruit wanted to enforce gifting what the person says, then the person gifted could send a snip/screenshot of what the gifter said they'd send and then a screenshot of what they actually sent (in the case of this happening as proof) AND if the gifter refuses to send what they promised

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Yeah in that case, it would work out for proof reasons only.

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Yeah i figured it was too much! One last question has there ever been a blacklist for individuals who refuse to gift/lie about it?

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Blacklists aren’t allowed unfortunately

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