Posted by -ADDED TO THE GAME-Please No More Main Giveaways [400+]

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spots (#98320)

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2020-01-24 16:14:48
Please read the entire suggestion before voting.

Giveaways in Main have crossed the line. Lots (and I mean LOTS) of players have expressed lots of frustration about how difficult it is to chat in main anymore, with giveaways and the amount of new players increasing in both frequency and duration. People genuinely have trouble having conversations in main, and a lot of players who used to frequent main (including lots of my friends) don't ever talk there anymore just because of the giveaways. I think that they've gone too far for not just one but three different reasons- chat spam, begging in chat, and harassment of players. I got tons of support when I asked whether I should make this suggestion. Finding out how many people hated the giveaway rule really made me feel validated, so here is the suggestion in full.


There are two solutions for this problem:
-Add a 'Giveaway Chat' for people to give away their lions there. Chatting would be allowed as long as it's centered around giving away lions/etcs (e.g. "Would anyone be interested in me doing an Ice app giveaway?" and discussion of this, "What lions do you guys all like? ;)" with replies or "Anyone need food?" The only messages not allowed would be completely offtopic things like "I had fast food for lunch" or talk about Lioden unrelated to giveaways and NOT hinting at gifts.) The problem with this is that it wouldn't prevent main chat begging at all- in fact, people could defend themselves begging now by saying 'that was meant for giveaway chat' or something and escape penalty. Also, it'd be utter HELL to moderate- I really think it's a good idea to keep it to forum threads entirely, in the community's common interest, even though people might complain about not being able to get all their free stuff as easily.
-Just flat out remove giveaways being allowed except for a section of the forums, like it had been for years before. I'd prefer this because a Giveaway chat wouldn't prevent harassment and begging in there.

Either option would be great. Most people would prefer a giveaway chat, but I'd argue the amount of begging/harassment would be far less if there was a clear message that giveaways are never allowed off of giveaway/freebie forums.

Now, a more in-depth look as to why I think giveaways are very detrimental to Lioden chat:

Chat Spam

Everyone guess between 1 and 300,000 for this cub!

Chat spam. There's a rising problem with Main giveaways that during some times of the day people actually have trouble speaking. It's getting worse and worse with more 'giveaway contest' sort of things being held- Usually you see guess a number, guess my favorite band, guess my favorite color, etc. Sometimes in about ten minutes you get multiple of these, and they drag on for AGES. The lion reward gets reposted sometimes for more people to enter the contest, and eventually you just have to leave chat and wait for it to die down.

Also, you have lions that no one wants (such as a Rosy Brown NCL without marks for example) posted over and over four or five times within a few minutes, until the person trying to give her away just gives up.

There's so much frustration from lots of people over this kind of thing. I can't remember there ever being a conversation in Main without an interjection of a lion giveaway. Main chat practically already is Giveaway chat I was here before giveaways were allowed, so I was here to see main chat without them, and it was a lot more peaceful, with conversation flowing better. I saw lots of different users back then. You would think there would be more nowadays with a larger player base, but now it's the same people around the same time every day, with older users avoiding main.

In a reply by Angry Goat Woman, which you can read below:

"To add to my reasons, since I just noticed how bad it is;
Currently I am counting eight giveaways in the last 5 minutes, four of them in the same "page" of chat; as well as one fake giveaway that was actually an advertisement.

I think it is so, so nice that all these people want to give out free lions! But then chat turns into
"Does anyone want [link]?"
Followed by atleast 4 pings, but frequently more if it is a pretty lioness.

As I'm typing this, I have glanced down at chat a few times. Every time I look, there is a new free lion. A new wave of disruption.
You can't have a normal conversation in chat anymore without being bombarded and suffocated with kindness.

It is awesome that our community is so giving; especially with nice muties. But it drives away people that just want to talk to eachother."


Begging

Begging. Lots of begging.

I've seen more users than ever before beg for free assets. It's not just newbies, no, it's people who have played for ages who should totally know better. I'm absolutely convinced it's due to chat giveaways. People are used to getting things for free, and they know that they'll scarcely get a slap on the wrist for asking for it, unfortunately. Also, there's "can i please have her" in PMs, there's "will you give her away! i want!" when people post their lions to main, and there's "hey if you're just foddering this cub can i have her? i want her." In chat beforehand, or even just a year or so ago, there was much less begging, and I saw much more of an immediate negative response towards it, I feel.

I've seen a lot of hate towards newbies for this kind of thing, and I really think it's a little bit unfair, since it's more of a rules problem and an entitlement problem, in my opinion. Getting rid of all the giveaways is the first step towards pushing older players to be less hostile. The second step would be cracking down on beggars more and making reading the CoC mandatory to type in Main, but this isn't the suggestion for that.

Also, with begging and attitude comes people who act aggressive and persistent about it, which leads to...

Harassment

...harassment. It's unfortunately very common.

In a lot of giveaways in main, people PM afterwards and are really upset about not winning for some reason. I've seen multiple stories (and would like to hear more below) about experiences with this. One of my friends gave away a random cub with a rare base and gave it away to a random user, only to get a PM from someone that just said "i asked first" and then got blocked. People get guilt tripped with things like "i'm so unlucky I never win anything good :(" or "i want to cry that i didn't win." I feel like the trouble created about main chat giveaways is much more than it's worth. PMs and real rage about not getting a free asset is just way too far, and it gets more and more common.

I can literally start a tally board of the amount of times I've seen 'but I asked first', I swear. Ridiculous.

That's about all I have to argue for right now. I'll insert a TL;DR for people who scrolled down without reading. If you did read it all, thank you, and whether you support or not I'm glad just to have my words considered by someone. I'd love additions and further discussion below.

Also, reminder that many of the people arguing against giveaways being allowed have been here and were active before they were allowed, and know the difference.

TL;DR: The harassment, spam, and constant begging caused by main chat giveaways along with the spite of older players over it is causing a lot of harm to Lioden. I don't think it's worth it anymore. Add a Giveaway chat and find a way to deal with the problems caused by begging and harassment there, or better, just keep it to giveaway forums.



This suggestion has 557 supports and 52 NO supports.



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Edited on 05/07/20 @ 09:21:25 by the serval spots 💛🌼 (#98320)

Sprigatito G1 Deca (#169873)

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Posted on
2020-02-05 21:05:57
I mean while that's possible I still don't think it would do as much good as y'all are hoping for. Yes, it MAY move slower but what's to stop it from turning into a second 'main' chat all together?

Unless the rules are literally "ONLY giveaways and people responding to giveaways" you're definitely going to have idle chat happening. And otherwise, it's just going to be the same people pretty much stalking the giveaway chat, and I can't imagine it'd be much fun. Do you want a giveaway chat where only giveaways and no idle chat are allowed, or do you want a second main chat where they're allowed as well as chatter?

In terms of people doing the whole "I WISH I had X item :(" I don't really think that's associated with giveaways? I've seen that randomly occur regardless of what happens so I don't really think a giveaway chat would hinder it. The problem is people who see those and give the items. If anything the rules should state something like "begging and hinted-begging (with an example given) are not allowed/are reportable/punishable/etc."



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Edited on 05/02/20 @ 21:07:07 by Incineroar (#169873)

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Posted on
2020-02-05 21:09:00
Yes my comment on the subtle begging was more of a general comment than just towards givesways

Like Goat Woman said- a chat strictly for giveaways wouldn’t fix everything. But it damn sure would help so main chat isnt “anyone want x?”, “posed ncl for free”, “potato cub anyone?”, etc, like every other second



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Edited on 05/02/20 @ 21:10:24 by Fire 🔥(side) (#131929)

Sprigatito G1 Deca (#169873)

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Posted on
2020-02-05 21:11:18
I dunno, I guess I haven't run into those issues as much; if someone wants to try giving away a lion I don't see a problem. At worst I've seen someone try to give away four lions, and that was done with after about 5 minutes. You could always have a rule that, if you are giving something away, instead of pings, someone has to PM you? Or, if you've tried to give away a lion more than 3 times you can't post anymore to give it away? Or limit your mass-giveaways (IE more than 5) to being spaced out every 15 minutes.

Like sure, it may not work perfectly, but neither would a giveaway chat.



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Edited on 05/02/20 @ 21:11:55 by Incineroar (#169873)

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Posted on
2020-02-05 21:14:22
I completely understand what you’re saying, but then again those things might be a lot harder to monitor than a separate chat :o
Adding a lot of new rules instead of just moving giveaways to a separate chat could end up just causing confusion



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Sprigatito G1 Deca (#169873)

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Posted on
2020-02-05 21:17:51
I dunno, I figure making a whole new chat with brand new rules is more confusing, because at that point you're still going to have people flitting into the main chat for giveaways and all that and relearning everything they're typically used to.

Regardless, I don't support, but I don't not support, if that makes sense. I see why it's useful, but I also don't think it's worth it. I'd just prefer more rules to the main chat, but to each their own. I just want the begging and subtle begging to stop, but that's going to be more a rules decision than anything else, not really related to giveaways.



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Edited on 05/02/20 @ 21:18:19 by Incineroar (#169873)

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Posted on
2020-02-05 21:21:03
Fair enough lol! Like I mentioned earlier, I 100% agree that we could use more moderation in chat in general



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survivor (#183270)

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2020-02-05 21:39:14
Question for anyone who knows: Can you post a link to a giveaway topic in sales chat? I know there are certain rules on what forums can be linked in what chats.
If we got rid of giveaway in chats entirely then I assume people would use the forum more and want to post it in chat.



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Posted on
2020-02-05 21:39:32
Most of the chat rooms have their own rules. So I would expect Giveaway chat to be the same.
For example, in help, you're expected to keep it limited to asking for help, and answering those questions.
Or in sales like you mentioned, you shouldnt post an ad more than once every 10-15 minutes.
People that break these rules tend to be reprimanded by users, and flagged for modbox to deal with.
The rules I would expect from Giveaway Chat would be:
-Dont ask for free items unless they are being offered
-Wait 10 minutes between posting the same free lion
-No "Spam" Giveaways like massive number games. ie: guess a # between 1-1000 for this lion!

At the end of the day, it's not really just about the begging though. The begging is actually the smallest and easiest to ignore issue. They can be flagged and dealt with already.
Its about all the spam it causes in main chat for the users that like to be active in it. Its so great there's all these free lions and gifts! But theres constantly someone trying to give away something.

To give this a IRL perspective:
Imagine being in a mall talking to all your friends. Yall are having a great conversation! Someone just brought up a good point you want to expand on with them. BUT WAIT!
Sharon, the hotdog pretzel lady is giving out FREE full sized pretzels! BUT only to whoever can guess her favorite color. Suddenly, all your friends are shouting colors at her. They want that free pretzel! Yum!!
Finally, someone wins! Atlast. You can get back to talking about... what was it again?
A conversation gets going again. You pass mane and bodyworks. Carol, the perfume woman, wants to give someone a free bottle of Axe spray. Gross. You dont want that, so you keep walking. Attempting to continue your conversation. But she follows you. And asks again. Several times. She eventually gets frustrated and offended that no one wants her axe, and just breaks the bottle on the ground. Because even she didn't want it.
And then you continue this cycle, of trying to talk and being bombarded by people wanting to give you things.
There isn't peace from it. Not even a safe place under the stairs to talk, because some weirdo is selling caricatures over there.
So you start leaving. One by one. Sure, some of your friends will still come hang out with you at the mall. But it gets noticeable how many of your friends have stopped showing up, even Harold; who you saw every morning for years.
All you want is a single courtyard in the mall where you can talk in peace. Sure, someone might follow you out with a free sample, and you'll have to tell them to go away. But you'll have peace. Finally. No one yelling in your ear every few minutes. An uninterrupted discussion.
And maybe, just maybe, your old friends will come back.



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Teo [G2 scoundrel] (#22920)

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2020-02-05 21:49:01
angry goat woman ur example is amazing and is definitely how i feel abt main chat !!! u summed it up rlly well !



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horizon2 [g1 sutekh] (#119259)

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2020-02-08 19:24:01
100% agree with this. Also restricting "gift wars" spam would be great. All it does is spam chat and clog it up with thinly veiled begging.



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2020-02-19 13:59:59
As an ancient player myself, I completely agree. Every now and again I will say something in chat, but I avoid it for the most part. Total support on this. Giveaways and guessing games have become a menace to LioDen society. I don't have any friends on here because I refuse to speak to anyone, due to this.



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Berenos|On hiatus (#84593)

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Posted on
2020-02-23 07:13:57
Total support! I no longer drop by main chat anymore because of those issues listen in the opening thread :'D



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🌻 the serval
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2020-03-22 07:00:23
Bringing this back for the utter mess this morning. If someone is giving away a mutie or something you're not entitled to it by birthright. They're allowed to give it to whoever they want whether or not You Asked First.



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Posted on
2020-03-29 08:50:21
Just hid chat...
For the last 20 minutes or so, it's been straight giveaways. And when I mentioned wishing that giveaways had a separate chat so people could actually talk, someone told me that "if you really want to talk, take it to DMs." And I can understand that, but the entire point of chat is for chatting. We couldn't even have that conversation because people were giving away lions left & right; in fact, the entire chat scroll was full of giveaways and pings for giveaways. It's way too excessive now, and something needs to be done; at this point, it's practically spam.

And on top of that, if I remember correctly, mods specifically said when giveaways were first allowed in chat that they couldn't be too excessive. If this isn't too excessive, what is?
So, you've definitely got my support.



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🌻 the serval
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2020-03-29 09:32:14
Thank you for the feedback. ^^

I agree that the quantity of spam and giveaways is just too much at this point. I feel like when they were first allowed it wasn't so bad and it's recently gotten awful.



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